Just watched Remember Me by Robert Pattinson
overall it's okay
the starting was a bit boring but the ending really got me thinking...
"Whatever you do in life, will be insignificant.
But it is very important you do it,because nobody else will. -Gandhi"
I don't really understand the meaning of it at first but after the movie..it makes sense...
I realise we don't so much appreciate the getting, but we ALWAYS mind the losing.
You remember what is lost, and you forget what's right in front of you.
Lost is painful, always is, but we have to move on and appreciate the ones around us before another regret...
i was six, me and my sister were put at one of my aunt's house for a week because my dad's undergoing liver surgery due to liver cancer at Singapore..
imagine being told when u were SIX that you have to prepare yourself that daddy might not be coming home..
One whole week.. no phone calls from mommy and daddy..no news at all...
it's scary...
and what's worst.. your relatives told you I'll send you to the best orphanage so you don't have to worry about your future
THAT is EXACTLY what THEY told me STRAIGHT IN THE FACE
your BROTHER is in critical conditions AT OVERSEAS and THAT'S what you TOLD HIS 6-YEARS-OLD DAUGHTER? HOW MEAN ARE YOU PEOPLE?
AT THAT TIME I WAS OBVIOUSLY SCARED
which 6-years-old wouldn't for God's sake?
my dad's life is at stake
and you people aren't even comforting his children but went on about which orphanage is good,about how you have to study hard yourself because they aren't going to support your education at all,about you going to be separated from your sisters and mom.
after a year...my dad was diagnosis ed with lung cancer...hence another 2 weeks with relatives
and they are STILL the same..no comforts. no positive thinking's.
WE WON'T SUPPORT YOUR LIVING IF ANYTHING HAPPENS TO YOUR DAD.
i know you won't support the rest of my family but i can't believe that's how you treat your brother.
My dad lost his dad when he was around 16, he worked hard to pay for his THREE younger siblings education until they graduated in universities.
Not a single thank you, they took it for granted. what's their excuse: He's the older brother, it's his responsibility to take care of us.
MEAN, UNGRATEFUL
Thank God there is such a thing called miracle.
My dad is still alive when the doctors told us again and again to prepare ourselves.
because of this incident i believe that miracle DO happen.
my dad didn't hold any grudges against them..probably because THEY are his SIBLINGS and he doesn't know what they told me and my mom.
i complain a lot about my parents, how annoying and how frustrating they are most of the time but they loved me unconditionally, i'm not their favourite but at least they still support me by giving and making too many decisions for me because they care for me.
I'll love them for who they are even though they'll no doubt pissed me off in the future xD
and another thing
i REALLY REALLY get PISSED when people say: He got cancer, but he's a nice guy.
it's like they are HINTING that they are bad in some ways we don't know and God is punishing them for their evil deeds.
and THAT'S one of the reasons why many people hide the fact that they are diasgnosised cancer.
one good example, my uncle.
He's now terminally ill..in coma..on oxygen tank
He has a 8-years-old son who is now having mixed feelings why his father got more attention from the family and why he can't tell people about his dad but to lie about his dad's condition.
He does not understand how ill his dad is, but it's completely understandable because he is only a little boy.
He does not understand why he must lie but he THOUGHT he understand why he must lie.
It's because my dad doesn't want anyone to know or there'll be rumours about how bad my daddy was or in his past lives. =.=
Why keep it a secret that you are diagnosised with cancer?
because people will think badly of you.
BULLSHIT
for those who think that people who are ill due to cronic diseases did evil mean stuff in their past deserved it, i politely ask you to THINK AGAIN.
EVERYONE of YOU has cancer cells in YOU!
it's a TIME BOMB
no matter how healthy you are, how healthy your lifestyle is
IT MAY HAPPEN TO YOU AS WELL.
my uncle, my grandma both are vegetarian. still they couldn't avoid it.
Life is UNPREDICTABLE
you can't foresee the future, NONE of us can.
but we can make a difference.
Be the change you want to see in the world.
Give the world the best you have.
yes it may never be enough,
but give the world the best you got anyway.
always appreciate and be grateful, don't forget what's right in front of you.
